Bad gay bar experience, agressive flirting
Very promiscuous gay bar where people just go to to agressively flirt with the most attractive guys they can find? Didn't feel friendly either to any guy looking older than a student (dansing alone in the corners), nor to me.
They were also some women (everyone assumed I was one). My officemate said they come here because they feel safer. If that's true I'm worried for them, because the straight guys were so agressively touchy in there.
Bad gay bar experience, crowd issues
My officemate complained that the girls were agressively elbowing their way through the crowd. I guess he's just too tall to notice that flirting dansing guys don't care if they are just pushing smaller people around.
I was several times grabbed by the shoulders and moved to the side so someone can pass by, I'm not enjoying that either.
Bad gay bar experience, alcohol, no physical agency, cptsd
Actually I was just grabbed and moved so much, by guys wanting to pass by, or by my friends who just tried to push me on the pole stage (I guess they thought "no way" = "convince me again when I'm drunk"), or by some straight guy who was not happy that my hands were not resting properly on his shoulder and just kept moving them back.
So I just dissociated to keep pretending and went non-verbal for the whole day after that
I drew a sad self-portrait yesterday and I like it because fantasy clothes are the best clothes and also the face is accurately asymmetrical but also very hot.
@Yulran Super bien ! Du coup tu verrais les tissus de la première tunique, de la jupe et de la ceinture de quelles couleurs ?
@cassandre Je les visualisais en noir et blanc. Mais si je devais vraiment les porter… rouge et noir peut-être ?
@Yulran d'accord :) j'avais un vague souvenir de tes dessins de ce style avec des couleurs plutôt pastel
@cassandre C'est possible ! Ca me rappelle un de mes persos de jdr qui etait habille a peu pres comme ca, lui c'etait en blanc et bleu clair.
@Yulran Aaah ça doit être ça :)
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